Encouragement

I was privileged to hear how God used something I did to encourage someone.  I wasn’t sure how it would turn out, but hey – college students always like to get mail right?  So I started sending puzzle pieces that were meant as greeting cards.  My college student friend told me how much fun it was to get the first couple and then realize there were more to come.  The pieces fit together to make a picture on one side, but on the other you can write a message.  Some of my messages were a bit sarcastic (something my close friends see on occasion – ok maybe more often than that).  Most of my notes included something that I hoped would be encouraging.

We never know for sure how something will turn out, but if God leads please follow.  I had found this puzzle piece cards some months ago and had no idea who I would send them to.  I meant to encourage someone else, but tonight I was encouraged to hear her joy.

I know that we don’t always get to hear the results of our attempts to encourage others.  Sometimes it doesn’t work the way we hope it will.  However, I can assure you as you go to God in prayer He will lead you in a way that is worth following.  You will be able to give joy to someone else – and receive joy in return.

Snow

Today we had our first measurable snowfall (a little late for Minnesota).  I always enjoy seeing the grass covered with the pure white.  It is reminder of the peaceful beauty in God’s wonderful creation.

Now the snow can stop.  This is enough for me. 🙂

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I cleared some of the deck.  Anyone want to stop for a visit?  😉

The “Little” Things

Another saying on my favorite tea came from Sherlock Holmes.

“To the great mind, nothing is little.” – Sherlock Holmes

I was excited to find someone had already made this kind of comment, since I had been thinking this for some time.  Yes, I know Sherlock Holmes is a fictional character, but I think Sir Arthur Conan Doyle was on to something.  In the Sherlock Holmes stories little details helped to solve cases.  I have found in real life the little things can have a profound impact.

A well timed text message on a rough day.  A postcard in the mail.  A smile at the right moment.  Someone starting my car and scraping the windshield for me.  All of these can seem like small things, but the blessing has been big.

The opposite is also true.  The little negatives can add up and cause great hurt.  However, I have found that the small positives can counteract the damage the negative has caused.

A plate of cookies.  A new craft idea.  A funny saying or comic.  A cute story.  I have enjoyed all of these.  And they made a difference.

Lessons from Tea

The tags on my favorite tea have various sayings.  Some are inspirational (like this one), some are funny, some are just – well lets just say that I throw those away.  I have kept the ones I really like – sayings like this one that spur my thinking, and give me something to write about.

“Never wish life were easier.  Wish that you were better.” Jim Rohn

The Bible talks about that very topic.

James 1:2-4 “Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.”

2 Corinthians 12:8-9 “Three times I pleaded with the Lord about this, that it should leave me. But he said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me.”

I have to admit, I still struggle counting trials joy.  I’m not a big fan of the “thorns” God sends my way.  God wants more for me than I want for myself.  I often prefer ease, when He wants perfection.  When I think about God’s love for me.  How much He wants for me both in my life here on earth and eternity with Him in heaven.  Then the trials and thorns take on new meaning.  As I dwell on the compassion and grace God has for me during trials as well as the results, the more joy I have.  And the better the results.

God is so good to me.

Thankfulness Challenge – Day 5

No thankfulness challenge could be complete without telling the story of my house from September, 2005.

This story is one of my favorites to tell.  God gave me a house.  Don’t misunderstand; I have a mortgage – so technically I am paying for it.  But there is no way I could be in this situation without God’s miraculous provision.

Point 1: God brought it to me.  I didn’t go looking.

I had talked to a realtor a couple of different times, but it wasn’t possible for me to buy a house.  So I accepted that I would be renting for years to come.  I was content.  God had given me a good apartment and a good landlord.

One evening after work I had a message from the realtor I talked to before.  She told me there was a new first time home buyer program.  She wondered if I would be interested.  In my mind I thought, “Sure, nothing will happen, but it will be good experience.”  Well, about 5 weeks later I closed on my house.

Point 2:  God made the impossible, possible.

I had left a job suddenly in May, was unemployed for about 7 weeks, and only had unemployment benefits 4 of those weeks.  Then I started a new job in July that was a lot lower pay.  I didn’t think a bank would give me financing with that financial picture.  However, the bank was willing to give me the financing and I could manage the small down payment that was expected.

Point 3:  God laid out each step to make my path clear.

Monday afternoon I went to see several houses – there were two of interest.  On Wednesday we went to a couple more – including a little green house that had only been put on the market that day.  I had a coworker with me that day.  He looked over the house with an experienced eye and made some positive comments.  I was rapidly falling in love with this house. The other two I had been interested in paled in comparison.  I knew I wanted to place an offer.  The next day my offer was excepted.

From the timing of my job change, to the financing, to the timing of my house coming on the market – God clearly made this happen.

This is my home sweet home.

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Thankfulness Challenge – Day 4

Happy Thanksgiving!

Today I am thankful for work.  This is an area where I have struggled.

I was fired from one job (under shady circumstances), laid off twice due to budget cuts, and walked away from two jobs due to high stress.  My jobs have given me the usual ups and downs that we all experience, but they have also been some of the biggest trials in my life.

However, I am thankful for the ability to work.  I am not independently wealthy so I must work to live.  Being single means I am the only one to provide an income.  The longest I was ever unemployed was 7 weeks and I had enough through unemployment benefits to manage financially until I started working again.  God has always laid out jobs and given me the strength to work.

Two of my jobs were ministry related.  Like Charles Dickens wrote, “It was the best of times, it was the worst of times.”  Ministry brings big challenges and heavy burdens.  It also brings great joy and wonderful opportunities to store up treasure in heaven.  I am thankful for the opportunity to have serve in paid ministry positions.

Today I am excited to be away from work for a nice, extra long weekend.  A chance to rest and become refreshed. 🙂

Thankfulness Challenge – Day 3

The more I think about what Christ did for me, the more blessings I can list.  Today I want to thank God for Christian friends.  I have some amazing friends.

There are some ladies in my church that could be mother figures to me (and sometimes they are), but they also treat me as an equal.  They care about me and invest in me – and allow me to invest in them.  I am filled with love and joy from their efforts.

There are men in my church who will take time to work on projects on my house.  Many of them showed concern when I didn’t have a furnace until the day before Thanksgiving in 2010 and when my roof was not in good shape a few years later.

There are various musicians who have invested in my musical ability (considering I have minimal formal training).  I have learned from them and feel more comfortable playing and singing in front of people (not my favorite place to be).

I have one particular friend who is extra special.  Most of our conversations turn to things of Christ.  I can discuss any topic (no really – any topic) with her.  She will listen and share what she has learned. We have lived through trials together. Grown and matured (and taken steps back) in our spiritual walk.  I have learned the depth that relationships can have when Christ is in the center.

I have many stories written down about blessings from many friends – no single post could hold them all.

I thank God for all of you.

 

An additional note:  I typed this post last night.  I visited one friend this afternoon – one of my “mother figure” friends.  She gave me a gift and thought that the gift bag was as much of a gift as what was inside.  She was right – see the pic below.

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Thankfulness Challenge – Day 2

After thanking God for salvation from sins through Jesus Christ’s death on the cross, my mind is filled with numerous life blessings.

Salvation was possible because God the Father, sent God the Son (Jesus) to die.  God was willing to pay the ultimate price for me.  God chose to do this despite the fact that He knew I would sin. Often.

My favorite character trait of God is His faithfulness.  Lamentations 3:22 says, “The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; His mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is Your faithfulness.” (ESV)  God knows failings. Yet He loves me enough to wait for me, to woo me with through the ministry of the Holy Spirit.  To send the appropriate discipline to help correct my flaws (Hebrews 12:11).  To send the needed encouragement to pick me up and set me on the correct path (Colossians 1:9).

I am thankful that God is faithful.

Thankfulness Challenge

I have seen many thankfulness challenges around Thanksgiving time.  I haven’t formally participated in the past, but I want to this year.  It is my goal to post something for which I am thankful each day this week.  When I take time to “Count My Blessings”, I find how many I really have. Writing gives me a record of thankfulness.

The first blessing is easy.  I am thankful that Jesus Christ died for my sins and rose again so I could know Him (1 Corinthians 15:3-4).  I was blessed to grow up in a home where I was taught about my need for Jesus.  As a child I placed my trust in Christ to save me from my sins (Romans 10:9-10). I am so thankful God made that possible for me.